When we’re around other trans and/or nonbinary people, we often don’t have to explain ourselves or educate others. We can just exist as we are. That alone can bring a huge sense of relief and comfort.

Connection might look like laughing together, talking about things that are hard, sharing memes, or simply being in a space where your gender is understood. These moments remind us that we’re not alone and that there is nothing wrong with how we feel.

At the same time, finding community isn’t always easy.

If you live in a rural area, don’t have supportive adults around, or are just beginning to explore your gender, it might feel difficult to meet other trans and/or nonbinary people. But connection is still possible, and you deserve relationships that feel safe, affirming, and supportive!